No one has said Mum is at end of life, but it is clear that her situation is very serious. Mum has stopped eating. This behaviour began with her taking food out of her mouth instead of swallowing and progressed to a point-blank refusal to eat. If by cajoling and persuasion she puts something in her mouth it remains at the front and she will not move it back to swallow. She has taken a few sips of water, but not enough to sustain life. She has been admitted to hospital and put on a drip and various investigations done. SALT says the swallow reflex is working. The latest thing has been an x-ray to see if there is any blockage in her gut. If there is it will mean more interventions which will be traumatic for her. It is my belief that there is some intention in her food refusal. It may have started with some medical issue, but now she feels so weak and ill she does not want to make the effort. She tries to refuse all help offered, even with maintaining oral hygiene and other help just for her to stay clean and comfortable.
Of course, the next few days should show if there is any cause for optimism, but if there isn't how long can she last like this? Is it right to keep her on a drip if it is just delaying the inevitable? Can her family ask for treatment to be stopped, and would it mean she dies in hospital?
Of course, the next few days should show if there is any cause for optimism, but if there isn't how long can she last like this? Is it right to keep her on a drip if it is just delaying the inevitable? Can her family ask for treatment to be stopped, and would it mean she dies in hospital?