Mum has had two bouts of terrible wheezing/coughing and struggling to breath - once in the Nursing home and afterwards when she was transferred to hospital.
The hospital called us all in thinking she might pass away as her oxygen levels were too low and heartbeat too high.
She recovered however distressing it was.
The hospital rang to say they have now got mum medically optimised.
Which I understand as they have got rid of the breathing problems maybe Pneumonia.
But, they keep stressing that it will probably happen again and we might think about a different approach if it happens in the future.
They think mum would be too frail to be admitted in the future and it might be better if she was put into a relaxed state if it happened again.
I couldn't bring myself to ask what that actually meant.
But I thinking they would sedate her and let her drift away, instead of suffering any more.
Could anyone confirm if I've understood correctly and if we wanted this to happen would we let the GP know our wishes?
Thank you for your help during this terrible time.
The hospital called us all in thinking she might pass away as her oxygen levels were too low and heartbeat too high.
She recovered however distressing it was.
The hospital rang to say they have now got mum medically optimised.
Which I understand as they have got rid of the breathing problems maybe Pneumonia.
But, they keep stressing that it will probably happen again and we might think about a different approach if it happens in the future.
They think mum would be too frail to be admitted in the future and it might be better if she was put into a relaxed state if it happened again.
I couldn't bring myself to ask what that actually meant.
But I thinking they would sedate her and let her drift away, instead of suffering any more.
Could anyone confirm if I've understood correctly and if we wanted this to happen would we let the GP know our wishes?
Thank you for your help during this terrible time.