My dad has been living with dementia for around 3 years. The past couple of months have seen a big decline in his ability to complete everyday tasks and he's up most nights. I live in Scotland. My mam and Dad live in the North East and she cares for him 24/7 which is taking a toll.
My question is what help is available for her? And where from? I have contacted local council (Sunderland) who say due to budget cuts they no longer offer day care services, but can arrange emergency respite for a fe days - this is a step further than mam wants or I think dad could cope with. We were hoping just for one day a wee to give her time to herself as she doesn't get any. Dad is struggling to communicate now (struggles to find the words for things which is causin frustration and mood swings), We are also now having toileting issues particularly at night. I worry if he were away for a few days he wouldn't be able to communicate his needs, and he is always looking for my Mam wherever we are.
I have managed to get a few days off this week to try and organise some help for Mam but there doesn't seem to be much available. My mam doesn't drive which limits options. Do the Alzheimers Society offer a service or Dementia UK Age Concern? How do we apply for these? I'm at a loss at how to help especially as I live so far away
My question is what help is available for her? And where from? I have contacted local council (Sunderland) who say due to budget cuts they no longer offer day care services, but can arrange emergency respite for a fe days - this is a step further than mam wants or I think dad could cope with. We were hoping just for one day a wee to give her time to herself as she doesn't get any. Dad is struggling to communicate now (struggles to find the words for things which is causin frustration and mood swings), We are also now having toileting issues particularly at night. I worry if he were away for a few days he wouldn't be able to communicate his needs, and he is always looking for my Mam wherever we are.
I have managed to get a few days off this week to try and organise some help for Mam but there doesn't seem to be much available. My mam doesn't drive which limits options. Do the Alzheimers Society offer a service or Dementia UK Age Concern? How do we apply for these? I'm at a loss at how to help especially as I live so far away