Hello All
I found this board and month ago and have found it a lifesaver and marvel at all the support available.
I posted about my dad's situation a while ago - very forgetful, losing skills weekly, very paranoid, conspiracy theories abound, refuses to engage with consultants and just received a letter from the DVLA about his driving. (He's now just got the letter to say he's been banned and wants to appeal as the police who weren't real police are in cohoots with the neighbours).
I thought you may know if I can get round this problem and get some type of support for this predicament....
He has psychiatric nurse, he never goes to the doctor and won't go to see the consultant (I got him there for the initial visit only because he didn't remember where we were going). The nurse visits once a week if we're lucky. Otherwise I visit once a week and bring him to mine for dinner on a Sunday. He has no friends to help him.
He has been given tablets to get his paranoia under control as it was starting to cause problems for himself and for where he lives (on a park home) and potentially he could easily be asked to leave due to recent events. The trouble is he forgets to take them and they need to be taken in the evening. He is deaf and doesn't hear his phone unless it's right under his nose (won't wear or forgotten how to wear) hearing aids . He has a mobile phone, can't afford a landline and has now lost the ability to answer his phone this week. I was phoning him every evening to check he was ok and to prompt him and it worked for a week or two. I know he's lost the ability to answer his phone as I've seen it and on average it was taking me 20 - 30 attempts before catching him.
Unfortunately where I live and having my own family commitments means I can't go there and prompt him every evening. And if he does ring I can't always take the call and as you know reminding someone with short term memory problems at 3pm to take their tablets at 8pm is useless. Intermediary care team have said (via the nurse) they won't go in with any support (non-psychiactric trained) until his mental state is more stable. His mental state won't get stable unless he gets some daily prompt to take his tablets ! Argh!
Any suggestions would be great. I am investigating how much a landline would cost but I am not sure that would work as he hasn't had one for at least 3 years and may have forgotten how to use that too!
He's had no formal diagnosis, no care plan, just the nurse (who's lovely) visiting every now and again.
The last thing I want is for a crisis to happen so really want to find a solution.
Thanks for listening.
Feezee
I found this board and month ago and have found it a lifesaver and marvel at all the support available.
I posted about my dad's situation a while ago - very forgetful, losing skills weekly, very paranoid, conspiracy theories abound, refuses to engage with consultants and just received a letter from the DVLA about his driving. (He's now just got the letter to say he's been banned and wants to appeal as the police who weren't real police are in cohoots with the neighbours).
I thought you may know if I can get round this problem and get some type of support for this predicament....
He has psychiatric nurse, he never goes to the doctor and won't go to see the consultant (I got him there for the initial visit only because he didn't remember where we were going). The nurse visits once a week if we're lucky. Otherwise I visit once a week and bring him to mine for dinner on a Sunday. He has no friends to help him.
He has been given tablets to get his paranoia under control as it was starting to cause problems for himself and for where he lives (on a park home) and potentially he could easily be asked to leave due to recent events. The trouble is he forgets to take them and they need to be taken in the evening. He is deaf and doesn't hear his phone unless it's right under his nose (won't wear or forgotten how to wear) hearing aids . He has a mobile phone, can't afford a landline and has now lost the ability to answer his phone this week. I was phoning him every evening to check he was ok and to prompt him and it worked for a week or two. I know he's lost the ability to answer his phone as I've seen it and on average it was taking me 20 - 30 attempts before catching him.
Unfortunately where I live and having my own family commitments means I can't go there and prompt him every evening. And if he does ring I can't always take the call and as you know reminding someone with short term memory problems at 3pm to take their tablets at 8pm is useless. Intermediary care team have said (via the nurse) they won't go in with any support (non-psychiactric trained) until his mental state is more stable. His mental state won't get stable unless he gets some daily prompt to take his tablets ! Argh!
Any suggestions would be great. I am investigating how much a landline would cost but I am not sure that would work as he hasn't had one for at least 3 years and may have forgotten how to use that too!
He's had no formal diagnosis, no care plan, just the nurse (who's lovely) visiting every now and again.
The last thing I want is for a crisis to happen so really want to find a solution.
Thanks for listening.
Feezee