Dad is in hospital for assessment and the doctors have told us that he will not be returning home and will be going into a care home. Dad is not married to his partner and has not appointed anyone with power of attorney. Can anyone help me with advice please? Who is responsible for making his financial and health care decisions now? Is it me and my sister? Is it his partner? I hate writing this, it feels like I'm talking about money when I should be talking about Dad but all of these worries are going round and round in my head. How do we pay his bills?