My dad has had Dementia for over 3 years and my mum came to a decision today that she really needs a break she is nearly 88 and she has been wonderful over the last 3 years looking after my dad, but now personal care has become an issue and it is just too much for my mum. My mum's main concern is what she should tell my dad about where he is going and why (ie into a care home for a week, but it could turn out to be long term). If anyone has any advice on what to say please let me know. He is very confused most of the time and tends to go with the flow but really not sure how this will effect him. Someone from the care home is going to come and do an assessment next week and then he will go in shortly after that. Mum has asked for me to be there when she tells him, should this be just before he goes or a few days before he goes?. It is so difficult, obviously there are feelings of sadness, guilt etc but we all feel this is the best thing for my dad. Anyway any advice would be very much appreciated.
Many Thanks
Jen48
Many Thanks
Jen48