Hi Its been a while since I have been on the forum. Life has just got more complex. My mum is undergoing assessment at the moment, we've been told she's muddling along but not in crisis!! Dad went into hosp on 10th December with pneumonia and injuries from a fall. Still in. He wouldnt mind Mum not visiting every day because it always stresses him but if we dont arrange to pick her up she wanders round the village telling people all sort of tales. She's lost all concept of time and will ring up early morning demanding to know why we've not picked her up.Shes now wearing the same clothes every day but if I say anything starts to get angry.Hospital keep saying Dad may be ok to come home soon despite not being able to get out of bed unaided or go toloo. Mum cant care for him so what happens next?