I am getting the ILF and can now get carers in to help. This after 5 years of caring. With the 10hrs i previously got my husband had a carer who became a friend. He has now left no longer living in this country. My husband only wants him and its affected him. He now will not accept any carer or anyone coming to the house. He also doesnt want to go to any of his clubs ether. He isnt depressed all he wants is the carer who left. I am having great problems with this. He won't let me out his site. Please please any sugestions.