As some of you are aware dads daily carers will cease providing their services to my dad in three weeks time. We are still awaiting news as to exactly what will happen next but I am assuming that its likely/possible that dad will be admitted somewhere to have a full assessment. Dad definitely cannot stay home without carers coming in but given the fact the current company have given notice due to his aggression can they really find another company to agree to providing his care. My sister is hopeful that ASC can arrange different carers and is still talking in terms of perhaps they can sort some out, perhaps adaptions to his bathroom, perhaps he can have a bed in lounge if concerns of him using stairs continues. I am trying to accept that dad needs to be in a CH but its difficult knowing that visits will most likely be impossible or will be very restrictive. I know my sister is really clutching at straws to keep dad home and I found myself today muttering along and virtually agreeing with her thoughts regards trying these things to keep dad in his home a bit longer but its only because its making me feel guilty that I can't offer anything myself care wise to prevent this from happening.
With lockdown now imminent I need to know that if my sister is going into dad in the morning which she does to get him up and give him breakfast does this mean I will no longer be able to visit dad in afternoon. The last time we had lockdown my sister was asked about a week into it to stop going in to dad so as to prevent any further risk to carers picking up the virus. I didn't visit dad inside his home either. My sister around a month later received another call from the care company asking if she could return to help with dad in the morning again so meaning get him up and do his breakfast as they were struggling not only time wise because he insisted they do a full cooked breakfast but also dads temperament wasn't good. I was still dropping dads shopping off for the carer to take in and calling dad daily. Occasionally my dad would come to his door but mostly he didn't and if he did he couldn't understand my not going in and would get upset/angry.
My question is, is my sister classed as a carer or his 'Bubble'? If sister is his 'Bubble' does that mean only one of us can continue going into dad during this next lockdown ?. The care company haven't as yet asked us not to go into dad and given his aggressive behaviour and the fact they are on the last three weeks of providing his care I think its likely they will probably want sister to continue getting dad up and giving him his breakfast.
I want to be able to see my dad as much as possible for the next three weeks if I can but mornings to do his breakfast is not possible. I know if dad goes somewhere for an assessment or to be placed into CH in the three weeks that I won't be able to see dad for quite a while and goodness knows how much he may change and will he forget who I am?. Both sister and I do fear dad will progress further if denied family contact. I don't want to break any laws/rules so can my sister be classed as a carer assuming Care Company still happy for her to go in and I be classed as his 'Bubble'? so that I can at least visit as well whilst he is still in his own home.
With lockdown now imminent I need to know that if my sister is going into dad in the morning which she does to get him up and give him breakfast does this mean I will no longer be able to visit dad in afternoon. The last time we had lockdown my sister was asked about a week into it to stop going in to dad so as to prevent any further risk to carers picking up the virus. I didn't visit dad inside his home either. My sister around a month later received another call from the care company asking if she could return to help with dad in the morning again so meaning get him up and do his breakfast as they were struggling not only time wise because he insisted they do a full cooked breakfast but also dads temperament wasn't good. I was still dropping dads shopping off for the carer to take in and calling dad daily. Occasionally my dad would come to his door but mostly he didn't and if he did he couldn't understand my not going in and would get upset/angry.
My question is, is my sister classed as a carer or his 'Bubble'? If sister is his 'Bubble' does that mean only one of us can continue going into dad during this next lockdown ?. The care company haven't as yet asked us not to go into dad and given his aggressive behaviour and the fact they are on the last three weeks of providing his care I think its likely they will probably want sister to continue getting dad up and giving him his breakfast.
I want to be able to see my dad as much as possible for the next three weeks if I can but mornings to do his breakfast is not possible. I know if dad goes somewhere for an assessment or to be placed into CH in the three weeks that I won't be able to see dad for quite a while and goodness knows how much he may change and will he forget who I am?. Both sister and I do fear dad will progress further if denied family contact. I don't want to break any laws/rules so can my sister be classed as a carer assuming Care Company still happy for her to go in and I be classed as his 'Bubble'? so that I can at least visit as well whilst he is still in his own home.