Dad has (at last ) moved into his new nursing home.After 7 weeks of being in hospital ( bed blocking)and his old carehome refusing to have him back because of his behaviour,I can relax again. He moved on Monday. The nursing home is about 40 minutes away( I do not drive) so I can’t just pop in like I did with the last home.( They were always calling me to go round and calm him down) It’s going to be 2 buses there and back so I will go once a week.I went far to often at his last home(10 mins walk) and that was not always a good thing ,as dad would not ask the carers to do things but wait for me and then get me to do what he wanted. I haven’t been able to visit him yet(probably at the weekend) but I’ve met staff and made up his room with pictures etc. I can’t believe what a difference in attitude the staff have ,after the last place.. Nothing worried them about dads behaviour and I feel I can trust them , although it’s very early days.They can cope with all types of dementia and I know this time he is in the right place. It was important to me that wherever he went, he would not have to move again. this is it,dad can be settled and I can relax knowing he’s well cared for.