I, like loads of folk on here, look after my other half 24/7 and it is wearing me out. However, I do now have a carer lady come in for just three hours a week at the moment - But I have to tell you, I went for a swim and a sauna today - all by myself! - It was fantastic!!!!!! No-one following me, asking me things, demanding attention and entertaining - no meals to prepare, no showers and dressing to organise - Nothing - Just me! Sorry - just had to share my happy state!