How many people trying to care for their loved ones, get well meaning neighbours thinking not enough is being done, I get up at 4.00am to visit my loved one every week, I've cancelled my holiday so as not to be too far away, I've had three much loved pets rehomed as I was away for long periods, the Doctor has said not much can be done, and the Social Services cannot do anything as every ailment is denied, she has been signed off by the Memory Clinic, and I am trying to cope alone to give her a little dignity and respect and love however unwanted, and to allow her to stay in her own home as long as is possible, and still I get people saying what are you going to do, you will have to do something about it, as if I dont care, why is it that some people think everything has an answer, I have not found one to this yet!