Tonight about 8 pm I had another phone call from an elderly resident at the same SH ACCOM my mother live in, asking me to come over as my mother was in the lobby sitting on a chair, staring into space, and waiting for a taxi to take her to London apparently, so yet again we dropped everything and went over immediately, when we arrived, we took her back into the flat and sat her down, at first she was very reluctant to go to bed, as she still wanted to get a cab to take her home! Anyway I persisted, and she got a bit nasty with me, pointed her finger at me and said don't boss me about Yvonne, I'm not going to be told what to do or you being bossy with me (I wasn't btw) and she looked at me angry, so I said , Mum you have dementia altzeimers, and she shook her head, no I don't she said, I'm alright, so I said, well why do you feel like this then, so she shakes her head again and oh I don't know, so I took her hand and said Mum you have a disease in your brain and it's making you do silly things and it's making you feel this way, and it's not your fault, with that she put her head on my chest, and I stroked her hair, and she calmed down, I got her undressed, gave her, her meds, and then put her to bed, when out of the blue as she put her head on the pillow, she lifted up her hand and said, here take these, I don't want them, you can have them, they are going to fall off, so I said what are, and mum said, my rings, (her wedding rings) so she seemed a bit anxious, so I took them off, and it must been the first time they've been off her fingers in 52 years, I felt weird and akward taking them, but she was persistent she wanted them off, and I didn't want her to get upset again, so I kissed her head good night, turned off the light, tucked her in and took the rings home.
Is this normal behaviour? Because it freaked me out a bit...
Also the care agency think she might have a urine infection, as she's nearly tried to go missing twice this week, and it's unusual behaviour out of the blue, but I'm busy tomorrow, so I've asked them if they can get on to the district nurse or doctor, so she can be tested for an infection and they said yes so I don't worry and they'll ring me and let me know etc.
Any help be appreciated thanks x
Is this normal behaviour? Because it freaked me out a bit...
Also the care agency think she might have a urine infection, as she's nearly tried to go missing twice this week, and it's unusual behaviour out of the blue, but I'm busy tomorrow, so I've asked them if they can get on to the district nurse or doctor, so she can be tested for an infection and they said yes so I don't worry and they'll ring me and let me know etc.
Any help be appreciated thanks x