Today is our 35th Wedding Anniversary. OH has been in a Nursing Home 18mths now. He still recognises me but conversation usually is based around may different times in his life all at once. Last year I took in cards cake and a small bottle of Prosecco, but he didn't really grasp what I was saying and I brought them home. This year I have been away for a few days and returned last night. My plan had been to just let it pass without comment. Not as a reaction to last year, but to save him the effort of trying to respond and the upset when I then leave without him.Anyone got any thoughts or ideas on this ?