My father- in -law has become increasingly forgetful and doesn't change his clothes etc ( you've heard it all ). When we got a letter from the GP saying he was unfit to drive we sent it to the DVLA and managed with great difficulty to move his car to our home for safety's sake. He has no insight and insists he is fine. Now he is ringing 15 -20 times a day asking when he will get his car back. We explain each time about the doctor's decision and DVLA but it really distresses him although he hasn't actually driven for about a month(we used to check the mileage). Are we doing the right thing by explaining over and over and being honest? The phone calls have been going on for a week now.