Hi everyone I have not been around for a while as my daughter broke my lap top, I have missed being able to visit . I am no further on with Mum, hospital still reccomending Mum goes in a home, Mum still adament she is not!! I have spent weeks looking for a nice home and have found one. Doctor has said Mum still has capacity so he can not section her but he is convinced she will come to harm if allowed to go home. I have been told by SW to tell Mum she is only there for a while and she will grow to like it. She doe's not know my Mum.... Yesterday I rang the home to arrange for Mum to have a look round in the hope that she may change her mind and I was told that a nurse who works on the ward where mum is at the moment told the home mum did not waant a place so they have given it to someone else. I am going insane with all of this I do not know what to do as I have also been told that if I get Mum in a home and she decides she is going home they can not stop her.I am convinced if Mum goes home she will be drinking again very soon and could kill herself. I am also feeling very guilty about taking Mum away from her home which she loves so either way what ever happens I am going to feel bad!!!