It is.
I tried my best with this situation for a long time and struggled to manage it is exactly the same way you are struggling now
@CherryTT4
It`s a while ago now but I still remember how everything seemed fine, we had dinner and were ready for the evening and then in a light switch moment, my husband would say, "I`m off now. I have to go home. My wife will be worried about me."
My heart turned over.
I`m still affected by the memory years later.
I knew it was sundowning;
Sometimes a person with dementia will behave in ways that are difficult to understand in the late afternoon or early evening. This is known as 'Sundowning'.
www.alzheimers.org.uk
but having a label didn`t make it easier to manage.
It was better when the evenings were darker because I could persuade him to wait until `tomorrow`. Even so, he would start to pack his things ready to go home.
I hid suitcases in the garage so he used supermarket bags, black bin liners, anything he could lay his hands on and I sat and let it happen.
When he was exhausted and eventually went to bed, I unpacked everything and put it away. When he woke in the morning it was as if nothing happened.
Until the next night.
Hold tight CherryTT4. It doesn`t last for ever but it really is a nightmare at the time.