Hi all, new to this so please bear with me. My Civil Partner has been diagnosed with Alzheimer's for over 2 years although I think she has had it a couple of years longer. Throughout lockdown she seemed to deteriorate and since going into hospital for 10 days in November, when I was not allowed to visit, she seems to be getting worse day by day. She frequently asks when am I coming home or do I know me etc. Sometimes she believes me when I say it is me and sometimes she doesn't. When I am not me, I try to be as reassuring as I can. However these last few weeks she keeps asking to go home, it is now about 4 times a week. She is getting very distressed and upset and I don't know what else to say to her. I can't comfort her as am a "stranger" so a cuddle or hand holding is out of the question. I have tried going through photos, or showing her around the house but she just gets more distressed and keeps asking why I won't let her go home. I know this is all part of the Alzheimer's but wondered how other people deal with this. We usually both end up crying and so far the majority of the time I try and distract her with a cup of tea and say we will go later. Hope this makes sense and would appreciate any advice.
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