My wife is 83 and has Alzheimer's and was Diagnosed 3 years ago. She has deteriorated quite a lot since Christmas and now dosen't want to stay in our home and wants to go home. The first words that she says when she gets up is, am I going home now or when am I going home. This continues relentlessly all day with no break and when I take her out she continually asks me to take her home. At home she now will not take her shoes off and gathers clothes ect and demands that I let her go home and I got to the stage that I have to keep the door locked. Even when we have our meals she is asking if she can go home. She is on medication, Memantine 20 mg once a day, Mirtazapine 15 mg once a day,, Pregabain 50 mg twice a day and Diazepam 2 mg no more than twice a day, the Diazepam dosen't seem to help at all and I just don't know what I can do about the relentless wanting to go home, the last few days she has got up at 0230 wandering about the house saying that she wants to go home so now a good night's sleep is not possible. We don't have any family so there is no one to help. I only get 3 hrs a week to myself each week and that is comming to a end and no one can tell me what will happen when this comes to a end. We get a visit from a psychiatric nurse every two weeks or so and she know the problem and she advises her consultant of the problems and prescribes the medication. I just don't know what I can do, it's getting me down. Can anyone advise me about the problem of my wife wanting to go home.