1. AJay

    AJay Registered User

    Aug 21, 2007
    123
    Leics
    I was told today that Dad is seriously ill now and he's unlikely to be coming out of hospital. He's not responding to medication, his heart and kidneys have failed and his heartbeat is very erratic. Today was the hardest decision I've ever had to take, to let him slip away.

    He doesn't recognise us any more when he's awake and thankfully he's asleep most of the time.

    God I hope this doesn't take too long for him.

    AJay xxx
     
  2. christine_batch

    christine_batch Registered User

    Jul 31, 2007
    3,388
    Buckinghamshire
    Dear Ajay,
    So sorry to read about your Dad.
    My thoughs and prayers are with you at this sad time.
    Very best wishes
    Christine
     
  3. lesmisralbles

    lesmisralbles Account Closed

    Nov 23, 2007
    5,543
    And I hope you will be OK, I, but as my Ron would say, God Bless.
    XX
     
  4. Tina

    Tina Registered User

    May 19, 2006
    420
    Dear AJay,
    thinking of you and yours at this difficult time, especially of your dad as well.
    Sending you caring thoughts and wishes,
    Tina
     
  5. Grannie G

    Grannie G Volunteer Moderator

    Apr 3, 2006
    69,133
    Kent
    Dear AJay,
    It might have been the hardest decision, but you know it was the right one. I too hope it doesn`t take too long.
    Love xx
     
  6. Skye

    Skye Registered User

    Aug 29, 2006
    17,000
    SW Scotland
    Dear AJay

    My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

    Love,
     
  7. Amy

    Amy Registered User

    Jan 4, 2006
    3,453
    Thinking of you Ajay. I know how difficult that decision is...but the time has come when it is the right one.
    Love Helen
     
  8. Mameeskye

    Mameeskye Registered User

    Aug 9, 2007
    1,669
    NZ
    Dear Ajay

    Thinking of you tonight. BE there as much as you can be and rest easy, you do the right thing.

    Love

    Mameeskye
     
  9. helen.tomlinson

    helen.tomlinson Registered User

    Mar 27, 2008
    541
    Hello Ajay

    Just to say that my thoughts are with you at this sad time and I hope that your father will soon be at complete peace.

    Love from Helen
     
  10. May

    May Registered User

    Oct 15, 2005
    627
    Yorkshire
    Thinking of you Ajay, take care.
     
  11. BettyL

    BettyL Registered User

    Jan 20, 2008
    60
    Essex
    All my best wishes go to you Ajay - I hope your dad will soon be free from his suffering.

    Please be reassured that you have done all you possibly could.

    God bless
    BettyL
     
  12. jane@hotmail

    jane@hotmail Registered User

    Mar 13, 2008
    49
    Bedfordshire
    Today must have been terrible for you. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time. I know you'll somehow find the strengh to get through this. I hope knowing we're all thinking of you will help a little.

    Jane x
     
  13. usalori

    usalori Registered User

    Mar 31, 2008
    9
    Ohio USA
    My thoughts and best wishes for you, and your dad. I can't imagine what a horrible day it has been for you today. I wish I could send a boatload of hugs across the Atlantic. Please take care of yourself.

    Love,
    Lori
     
  14. clarethebear

    clarethebear Registered User

    Oct 16, 2007
    197
    manchester, uk
    Hi AJay

    I sure am glad I'm not stood in your shoes at this moment in time. This is for you {{{{{hug}}}}} I know it won't help but I'd like you to know im thinking of you.

    Take Care
    Clare
     
  15. jack29

    jack29 Registered User

    Mar 8, 2008
    71
    Thinking of you Ajay x
     
  16. bated01

    bated01 Registered User

    Apr 4, 2008
    12
    Coventry, England
    You did the right thing

    I am sure your dad would thank you for not letting his suffering drag on. It is avery hard decision but tou have done the right thing and you should be proud that you have been strong enough to do it as i am sure your dad would be proud of you.

    Take care
    Love Debbie
     

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