Hi can someone please help me. My mother is in a care home and my father is the allocated visitor as he is her NOK. Visiting from the car park is no longer allowed due to the weather. I am not coping with not seeing my mum and Skyping doesn't really work with mum. Recently my father registered me as a second NOK.
Unfortunately my father was diagnosed with covid and is seriously ill in ICU. I don't know how long it will be before he is able to visit . I have asked the care home that I will visit my mother and have been told that they can't change the visitor until they know how long my father will not be able to visit and if they did put me as the new visitor they would not be able to change it again. My father may not survive as his lungs have been damaged and also is on dialysis so it is a very difficult time for me. Can anyone advise as I am so desperate to see my mum before she deteriorates any further.
Unfortunately my father was diagnosed with covid and is seriously ill in ICU. I don't know how long it will be before he is able to visit . I have asked the care home that I will visit my mother and have been told that they can't change the visitor until they know how long my father will not be able to visit and if they did put me as the new visitor they would not be able to change it again. My father may not survive as his lungs have been damaged and also is on dialysis so it is a very difficult time for me. Can anyone advise as I am so desperate to see my mum before she deteriorates any further.