Hi all,
My mum went into a care home at New Year and it was advised that she had no visitors (even my dad) for a few weeks while she settles. I live 3 hrs away from my parents and I went back 2 weeks ago to spend sometime supporting my dad but, wasn't able to visit mum as it still hadn't been long enough for her to settle.
So, I'm going back tomorrow to spend the weekend with my dad and will also be seeing my mum for the first time in the home. I have no idea what to expect and I know I will be tearful (especially at the minute being 7 months pregnant and very hormonal). It sounds silly but I try and envisage what it might be like, how she will react, how I will react etc and the worst part, how to say goodbye. I'll be going back the next day too, so I'll be saying see you tomorrow, but I know I'm going to hate walking out of there without her. Does it get easier each time you go? My 4 year old will be with a family friend whilst I visit for the first time as I don't want her to see me upset, but was hoping she could visit my mum the following day as I know my mum would love that. Is that a sensible idea?
Alex
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My mum went into a care home at New Year and it was advised that she had no visitors (even my dad) for a few weeks while she settles. I live 3 hrs away from my parents and I went back 2 weeks ago to spend sometime supporting my dad but, wasn't able to visit mum as it still hadn't been long enough for her to settle.
So, I'm going back tomorrow to spend the weekend with my dad and will also be seeing my mum for the first time in the home. I have no idea what to expect and I know I will be tearful (especially at the minute being 7 months pregnant and very hormonal). It sounds silly but I try and envisage what it might be like, how she will react, how I will react etc and the worst part, how to say goodbye. I'll be going back the next day too, so I'll be saying see you tomorrow, but I know I'm going to hate walking out of there without her. Does it get easier each time you go? My 4 year old will be with a family friend whilst I visit for the first time as I don't want her to see me upset, but was hoping she could visit my mum the following day as I know my mum would love that. Is that a sensible idea?
Alex
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