Hi all,
I have been finding it hard to sleep these days as I seem to have a lot on my mind.
I have a date for my total knee reconstruction ( both knees) 14t January 2008) not far away really.
Also respite ,at care home , has been arranged for mum from the 22nd Jan to 25th Feb. so all seems to be in place. Hubby and carers will have to fill in the first week,
My worry is I know mum is going to be so angry and upset, it is starting to worry me now , I dare not tell her , yet. Mum is still full on care ,she is walking with a walking stick around the house, but when I take her shopping she was very unsteady and it is difficult to manage her , I am unsteady on my feet also. She really loves going to the shopping center but I am finding it harder for me. Someone suggested a wheel chair but mum says ,no. ( Oh boy life isn't meant to be easy)
Mums dementia has seemed to have increase slightly since the last fall, she is forgetting ( every day) how to make her bed something that she was always very particular about and now she gets angry if I am not there straight away to help her. She needs constant reminding of days and date and the people's names and cannot read anymore( even with new glasses) She does not look at the television she looks around ,and says that she cannot understand what they are saying. It is hard trying to keep mum entertained through the day,and she is beside me constantly.
Sorry to pour all my problems on to you all, but it sure helps getting it out in the open.I know I have friends on Talking Point that will understand, and I thank you all.
regards Paris07
I have been finding it hard to sleep these days as I seem to have a lot on my mind.
I have a date for my total knee reconstruction ( both knees) 14t January 2008) not far away really.
Also respite ,at care home , has been arranged for mum from the 22nd Jan to 25th Feb. so all seems to be in place. Hubby and carers will have to fill in the first week,
My worry is I know mum is going to be so angry and upset, it is starting to worry me now , I dare not tell her , yet. Mum is still full on care ,she is walking with a walking stick around the house, but when I take her shopping she was very unsteady and it is difficult to manage her , I am unsteady on my feet also. She really loves going to the shopping center but I am finding it harder for me. Someone suggested a wheel chair but mum says ,no. ( Oh boy life isn't meant to be easy)
Mums dementia has seemed to have increase slightly since the last fall, she is forgetting ( every day) how to make her bed something that she was always very particular about and now she gets angry if I am not there straight away to help her. She needs constant reminding of days and date and the people's names and cannot read anymore( even with new glasses) She does not look at the television she looks around ,and says that she cannot understand what they are saying. It is hard trying to keep mum entertained through the day,and she is beside me constantly.
Sorry to pour all my problems on to you all, but it sure helps getting it out in the open.I know I have friends on Talking Point that will understand, and I thank you all.
regards Paris07