Hello, I am new to this forum so bear with me. I am posting as I just can' find any posts that describe what has happened to my mother. She has gone from no apparent Dementia to stage 4-5 and in a care home in two months
I will try and condense what has happened. In January 2018 she got run down. She is 81 and has mobility issues after both hips replaced. She lived with my husband and I. I helped her with shopping, cleaning, appointments. But otherwise she was independent had her own living room read watched TV. She did her own finances knew her PIN numbers, paid bills on time no issues.
On 30th January I noticed some odd behaviour. She left me a note, not unusual but it made no sense. I asked her about it she said she didn' remember why she left it, just ignore it she was tired. To cut a long story short. She got very confused. She ended up in hospital a few days later. Her sodium had dropped to 20% which sends anyone potty. This was due to her meds not being reviwed. She was admitted to hospital, after a few days she actually seemed back to normal personality wise.
The next day I went to see her she was really confused. No idea what day it was. Saying things that couldn't possibly be true. Fast forward a few days and she also has a urinary tract infection. They told me she had delerium and it takes time to clear. She came home with carers in place.
She didn' know what day it was. No concept of time. Couldn't recall numbers dates of birth of close family members. Unable to make a cup of tea, use the microwave. Couldn't get dressed because she couldn't remember the order clothes went on. She seemed to improve slightly. We ended up back in A&E after one episode the GP thought her sodium had dropped. It hadn' brain scans were mentioned but no referral.
Four weeks later an Occupational therapist did a memory test. He said it was pretty certain to be dementia.
She declined a bit. Wasn't sleeping up in the middle of the night emptying drawers. Switched the oven on. The last two weeks we tool it in turns to stay with her. It just wasn't safe to leave her.
We are self funding so I set about finding a care home. She agreed as in her lucid moments she saw we just couldn't keep her safe. We found a nice small care home near where she grew up.
So that' it so far. Still awaiting brain scans, memory clinic. No health care professionals so far have disagreed it' anything else. They said her behaviour is typical.
So my theory reading as much as I can, is Vascular dementia brought on by a double whammy of low sodium and UTI.
Any thoughts or similar experiences.
I will try and condense what has happened. In January 2018 she got run down. She is 81 and has mobility issues after both hips replaced. She lived with my husband and I. I helped her with shopping, cleaning, appointments. But otherwise she was independent had her own living room read watched TV. She did her own finances knew her PIN numbers, paid bills on time no issues.
On 30th January I noticed some odd behaviour. She left me a note, not unusual but it made no sense. I asked her about it she said she didn' remember why she left it, just ignore it she was tired. To cut a long story short. She got very confused. She ended up in hospital a few days later. Her sodium had dropped to 20% which sends anyone potty. This was due to her meds not being reviwed. She was admitted to hospital, after a few days she actually seemed back to normal personality wise.
The next day I went to see her she was really confused. No idea what day it was. Saying things that couldn't possibly be true. Fast forward a few days and she also has a urinary tract infection. They told me she had delerium and it takes time to clear. She came home with carers in place.
She didn' know what day it was. No concept of time. Couldn't recall numbers dates of birth of close family members. Unable to make a cup of tea, use the microwave. Couldn't get dressed because she couldn't remember the order clothes went on. She seemed to improve slightly. We ended up back in A&E after one episode the GP thought her sodium had dropped. It hadn' brain scans were mentioned but no referral.
Four weeks later an Occupational therapist did a memory test. He said it was pretty certain to be dementia.
She declined a bit. Wasn't sleeping up in the middle of the night emptying drawers. Switched the oven on. The last two weeks we tool it in turns to stay with her. It just wasn't safe to leave her.
We are self funding so I set about finding a care home. She agreed as in her lucid moments she saw we just couldn't keep her safe. We found a nice small care home near where she grew up.
So that' it so far. Still awaiting brain scans, memory clinic. No health care professionals so far have disagreed it' anything else. They said her behaviour is typical.
So my theory reading as much as I can, is Vascular dementia brought on by a double whammy of low sodium and UTI.
Any thoughts or similar experiences.