Hi everyone I am new to the forum so I will say hello to you allI need some help with what I should do? My father is 73 and has vascular dementia and is currently in hospital getting assesed due to a number of problems that he has! He got diagnosed with dementia about 2 years ago but I knew that something was wrong with him roughly 7 years ago after he had a quadrouple heart bypass and complained of severe dizzyness and he was forgeting things that just a few days before he had no problems with remembering?? Obviously I know that vascular dementia has a great effect on the brain reciving enough blood supply and oxygen so thus causing parts of the brain to become dead and this is where I think the word dementia then becomes used??? Im lost really because he has had a number of CAT scans and these scans do not show any form of alzheimers disease or a typical vascular dementia scan picture so we do not have a actual diagnosses on his condition I really dont know how to approach the doctors and ask them what is happening or what they are going to do for my dad and I know they are now using aricept,reminyl,exelon and exiba and reporting good results for patients with vascular dementia.I owe it to my dad to do as much as I can and more asap but I just dont know who to see and what to say???? Can someone please give me some advice as he is in hospital and surely this is the best place for the treatmen to be startedThanks everyone.Tony