Thank you so much everyone! It is so good to read your stories and realise that we are not as alone as we think we are... so many people in the same boat, and it's up to us to make sure our little boats do not sink!
Sometimes I have difficulty in getting my head around things, and I think this is because we are not married, and because we have not been together all that long. I cannot ever see me walking away from him, but I do wish the GP had not told me that was my only way out of this situation.
Once the snow has gone and people are back in work, I am going to phone social services about a new care plan, as I was stupid enough to think once they did it, that was that. They now tell me it has to be done every year!
We learn so much in this new job as carer don't we?
Sometimes I have difficulty in getting my head around things, and I think this is because we are not married, and because we have not been together all that long. I cannot ever see me walking away from him, but I do wish the GP had not told me that was my only way out of this situation.
Once the snow has gone and people are back in work, I am going to phone social services about a new care plan, as I was stupid enough to think once they did it, that was that. They now tell me it has to be done every year!
We learn so much in this new job as carer don't we?