Activities
Dear Sarah,
The NH is quite forward thinking in the way residents are handled and cared for and there is someone to organise activities, but her time is spread between two parts of the home. Mum isn't mobile and can get upset if moved from her room sometimes. She is rather deaf, so can't join in with quizzes or anything which requires listening in a group. She does participate in the monthly Communion Service led by the local Vicar and is visited by someone from our own Church. Children from local schools sometimes come in to sing or perform.
I think she would enjoy some simple craft work, as she used to like painting and drawing, but again the arthritis in her hands make them very sensitive and painful. Mentally, I don't think Mum is that bad, at least compared with some described on TP. Mum's physical problems are limiting her activities so much, but I don't really know what to do to help her. After the summer holidays, the NH are going to try and arrange a physiotherapy assessment if possible and investigate whether Mum's digital hearing aid can be refitted. Her ear has changed shape and the device won't go in properly. Apparently dementia patients can't have new hearing aids because they need to co-operate a lot with the test for it to work.
It all seems so sad that she knows a lot of what's going on and can remember well, events in the past, but her quality of life is not good at the moment.