Dad has been doing so well in his NH. Been there since November. He's 91 with CHF, renal failure, history stroke, half blind, Alzheimers and Vascular dementia.
He now struggles to walk with a frame, is constantly tired and it has to be said - grumpy. He repeats the same conversation frequently. But on the plus side he has put on nearly a stone since he moved in. Last time I visited he laughed and the carers said it was the first time they heard that. It was a brief glimpse of my Dad.
I visit 3 times a week, it's as much as I can manage. The thing is, every time I leave I always tell him I love him, cause you never know it may be the the last thing ... You get the drift. But he never says it back.
That's what upset me yesterday- I know it's not his fault. But I cried all the way to the car and I'm crying whilst I'm writing this.
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He now struggles to walk with a frame, is constantly tired and it has to be said - grumpy. He repeats the same conversation frequently. But on the plus side he has put on nearly a stone since he moved in. Last time I visited he laughed and the carers said it was the first time they heard that. It was a brief glimpse of my Dad.
I visit 3 times a week, it's as much as I can manage. The thing is, every time I leave I always tell him I love him, cause you never know it may be the the last thing ... You get the drift. But he never says it back.
That's what upset me yesterday- I know it's not his fault. But I cried all the way to the car and I'm crying whilst I'm writing this.
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