Hi All,
Hubby and I had a lovely weekend at the kids place and Mum seemed to be quite happy with the carers also.
We bought our Granddaughter back with us for a few days but that turned into 1 day as it seemed to upset Mum and she got very angry and verbally abused us and I was really worried as baby started getting upset also.( she is 18months and starting to notice ).
It seems now that we are not going to be able to have her here as there is never a time when Mum goes out without me. This does not seem fair on us,
Mum has picked up a lot since her last fall( physically) but she still gets confused and demanding and shadowing I don,t know what to do I (we) seem to pay so much attention to Mum and trying to keep her happy that there is little time left for us (hubby and me).
Here I go again I read this thread back and think to myself, ask for more respite I seem to know that is the answer but I wish there was another way as I know Mum does not like that .
thank you for hearing me out once again
regards Paris07
Hubby and I had a lovely weekend at the kids place and Mum seemed to be quite happy with the carers also.
We bought our Granddaughter back with us for a few days but that turned into 1 day as it seemed to upset Mum and she got very angry and verbally abused us and I was really worried as baby started getting upset also.( she is 18months and starting to notice ).
It seems now that we are not going to be able to have her here as there is never a time when Mum goes out without me. This does not seem fair on us,
Mum has picked up a lot since her last fall( physically) but she still gets confused and demanding and shadowing I don,t know what to do I (we) seem to pay so much attention to Mum and trying to keep her happy that there is little time left for us (hubby and me).
Here I go again I read this thread back and think to myself, ask for more respite I seem to know that is the answer but I wish there was another way as I know Mum does not like that .
thank you for hearing me out once again
regards Paris07