Christmas Day
Hi,
I feel confused and upset as my family have had enough and we have all decided Grandma should not come to us Christmas day.
We all love her but my behaviour around her upsets hubby and son 24 and Daughter 28.
I do find it hard if she is incontinent or needs help in the downstairs loo ( hard to preserve dignity such a small space ) she is a bit hard of hearing even with the aid I find it hard.
So, she will come Christmas Eve and/or Boxing Day if she is out of bed, so strange to leave her in the care home. I havent told my bro yet, he is away for a week over Xmas, he would understand but I hate telling him so often how hard i find her sometimes. She is so sweet really,