Hi all.
Still holding together. After all the nonsense with SIL, OH decided we are taking several steps back (he hates being lied to, so do I, but not my sister). It appears it wasn't respite that they wanted MIL to go too, it was an assessment unit, she scored 4 on the memory test!!! So who has been covering up for who?? Anyway we have been turning the phone off after 21H30 and OH says if they need him they will send the police!
MIL is bad again, does not remember husband, only wants Theo (her much older brother long deceased, he kept the family together after deaths of parents). We have also stopped visiting 3 or 4 times a day, OH says as SIL maintains there is nothing at all wrong with MIL, carers are a total inconvenience etc, so SIL can carry on her own sweet way.
T returned from uni and went to see MIL, said he was an imposter who drank all her tea, he saw her pour it on the carpet!!! T said she has gone downhill since he saw her last weekend in April until begin June and SOMEONE is still in denial.
Regards, try and relax and take what comfort you can out of very trying circumstances.
C.
Still holding together. After all the nonsense with SIL, OH decided we are taking several steps back (he hates being lied to, so do I, but not my sister). It appears it wasn't respite that they wanted MIL to go too, it was an assessment unit, she scored 4 on the memory test!!! So who has been covering up for who?? Anyway we have been turning the phone off after 21H30 and OH says if they need him they will send the police!
MIL is bad again, does not remember husband, only wants Theo (her much older brother long deceased, he kept the family together after deaths of parents). We have also stopped visiting 3 or 4 times a day, OH says as SIL maintains there is nothing at all wrong with MIL, carers are a total inconvenience etc, so SIL can carry on her own sweet way.
T returned from uni and went to see MIL, said he was an imposter who drank all her tea, he saw her pour it on the carpet!!! T said she has gone downhill since he saw her last weekend in April until begin June and SOMEONE is still in denial.
Regards, try and relax and take what comfort you can out of very trying circumstances.
C.