Crunch time....
Hi everyone,
Had a call from the home today and it is clear that Mum is simply not going to settle in. She has absconded two or three times (she was not considered bad enough to be in the secure wing) and said she will kill herself if she can't go home. She has also hit some of the nurses and upset other residents. We went through all this with suicide threats when we had to stop her driving so history is repeating itself.
So the home have requested an urgent psychiatric assessment and I suspect she will have to go somewhere else more secure. Shame as my Dad has really settled in and my hopes of them spending their twilight years together with some quality of life are not going to be realised.
Anyway I'm going to visit tomorrow afternoon and will probably have to tell Mum she can't go home which no doubt will get her all angry and violent again.
Anyway rant over, I'm sure we will survive all this.
Hi everyone,
Had a call from the home today and it is clear that Mum is simply not going to settle in. She has absconded two or three times (she was not considered bad enough to be in the secure wing) and said she will kill herself if she can't go home. She has also hit some of the nurses and upset other residents. We went through all this with suicide threats when we had to stop her driving so history is repeating itself.
So the home have requested an urgent psychiatric assessment and I suspect she will have to go somewhere else more secure. Shame as my Dad has really settled in and my hopes of them spending their twilight years together with some quality of life are not going to be realised.
Anyway I'm going to visit tomorrow afternoon and will probably have to tell Mum she can't go home which no doubt will get her all angry and violent again.
Anyway rant over, I'm sure we will survive all this.