im not sure how long its been since i last posted , im not sure why but it has been a long time in adjusting too dave going into the care home, i spend my time between home work and being with dave and i never seem too have a minute too spare. dave is very much worse now, he finds it difficult too communicate anything other than home on his talking aid . he can barley hold his weight now when standing,it takes 3 carers to stand and move him or they use a standing hoist. hes very deppressed and when i go we never seem to have any quality time as he continually trys to type in home and im continually explaining why he cant. dave now has a loveley room downstairs with all the home comforts, dave has his own computer installed in his room and should be up and running soon. its specificley for a disabled person with large mouse and keys. even if he manages to play a game i will be happy. we were allocated an admiral nurse recently and she was fantastic and made me feel that i had done all i could at home for dave. dave will never believe that as he still understands some things. dave is now doubley incontinent ,he cant do anything for himself, has trouble eating and drinking, but still looks like any other 57 yr old. the home has become my second family now andi no that they all love dave and do anything to eleveate his disstress. dave went to the albion last sat with the children and a carer from the home . dave comes home regulaly usually on a sunday for the day but was home today because i was not at work, . i will try and keep in touch more often as things are a bit calmer and send my love too all my friends and hope life is being kind too you all. love lyn xxxx