Three weeks dad had been in care home and now constantly asking to go home. He’s begging me saying he’ll go mad if he stays there ! Which he is anyway slowly. My brother is so unsupportive saying he wouldn’t want to be there but of course he wouldn’t he’s 60 not 88 with Alzheimer’s. I told him he can take him out and care for him but I’m not moving him. He then says he can’t as had to work he offers no solution but constantly supports dementia led pleas from dad but not me. I’m at the end of my tether. Just wld like him to work with me not against. My brother has seen him 8 days in about the last 9 months I’ve spent every 4th week with dad often more as we both live 4 hours from him, I’ve not worked for 9 months and can’t go back to that life it almost broke me. I’ve ended up on anti depressants and something had to give I’ve told my brother I’m not going back to what was.