Hi all My wife had to give up her driving licence 4 years ago and has slowly declined in other abilities as the months/years have past. We have had angry and delusional periods - waking up in the night and wandering around and all sorts of other disturbing behaviour. I have managed to get medication sorted for her that allows her now to be happy, relaxed and pretty well sleeping through the night undisturbed.....most of the time. Like most others in a similar situation to myself, I am calm and rational but occasionally raise my voice when things get on top of me. Twice a week for about a year, my wife went in a minibus to a day-care centre about 10 miles from our home but when the bus stopped to let people on or off she would sometimes think she had to get off and would undo her seat-belt. I was told this contravened Health and Safety rules so they could not take her any more. I contacted several other day centres and was told that unless I could deliver and collect her they could not take her! Health and Safety say seat belts have to conform to BS..#*!!.............. or they are illegal.