Since posting last time i followed advice which i was given and was feeling really positive until...
Started gertting abusive phone calls from the prodigal son.....Regarding Registration of EPA. Reported this to B.T and my own solicitor asked them to make log.
Even though i have EPA i have not head anything from the guardianship office. No doubt he will try to block it.... im not sure what his rights are..Re:Uncle Toms care....He Has decided to tell the hospital that he (as next of kin) want to be informed of everything that happens....
He has not been to visit since the last episode but there is time ...
Back to the important matters anyway...
Went to see uncle tom today and he seems to have gone down hill rapidly he found it difficult to speak to me he was talking very slowly and his movements were even slower.... i got the impression that it was too much like hard work.
he kept falling asleep.
He has stopped eating completley but drinks ok...
Can they leave him without food ?
I have spoken to the sister who told me Uncle Tom had a fall this early hours and was distressed.. (but she never thought it relevant to contact anyone)
I could have been there within half an hour if only to offer reassurance to Uncle Tom.....
She then went on to say that her nor S/S thought Uncle Tom was well so.... assesment would have to be posponed AGAIN ...
WHY DONT THEY LISTEN.....
They are sending him for another chest xray and hes got to have more blood tests.. AGAIN...
Think ive got...Banging head against a brick wall syndrome....
Sorry to be whinging again but without the support and more importantly the HONEST advice i have recieved from this site i would be completley lost...
so........ many many thanks.....
Danni x
Started gertting abusive phone calls from the prodigal son.....Regarding Registration of EPA. Reported this to B.T and my own solicitor asked them to make log.
Even though i have EPA i have not head anything from the guardianship office. No doubt he will try to block it.... im not sure what his rights are..Re:Uncle Toms care....He Has decided to tell the hospital that he (as next of kin) want to be informed of everything that happens....
He has not been to visit since the last episode but there is time ...
Back to the important matters anyway...
Went to see uncle tom today and he seems to have gone down hill rapidly he found it difficult to speak to me he was talking very slowly and his movements were even slower.... i got the impression that it was too much like hard work.
he kept falling asleep.
He has stopped eating completley but drinks ok...
Can they leave him without food ?
I have spoken to the sister who told me Uncle Tom had a fall this early hours and was distressed.. (but she never thought it relevant to contact anyone)
I could have been there within half an hour if only to offer reassurance to Uncle Tom.....
She then went on to say that her nor S/S thought Uncle Tom was well so.... assesment would have to be posponed AGAIN ...
WHY DONT THEY LISTEN.....
They are sending him for another chest xray and hes got to have more blood tests.. AGAIN...
Think ive got...Banging head against a brick wall syndrome....
Sorry to be whinging again but without the support and more importantly the HONEST advice i have recieved from this site i would be completley lost...
so........ many many thanks.....
Danni x