Hi @AL60 , such good news. Stopping trying to control or change what we have no power over, is something I learned more than three decades ago ....and keep forgetting. Your daughter's moving out is another great piece of news . Grownup children have to live on their own, whenever it is possible and affordable. You will have a fresh start, which doesn't mean your wife won't be in your heart. You are still young and have a life still to be lived and enjoyed.