Yes. My answer is yes, I have felt envious of those who can get off the bus, as you say @Philbo .And to chuck another emotion into the pot, has anyone ever felt envious when reading about someone whose "journey" has come to an end? I don't want to offend anyone who has lost a loved one, for it must be a very sad and traumatic time. However, though I feel very guilty of even thinking like this, there are times when I just want the "bus to stop, so I can get off".
I feel guilty, but that does happen to me.
I need my life back. I need to be free again.
When my mother died at the age of 83 (she had had dementia for 5 years) I did not grieve. She was only a shadow that vanished. I did not lose her when she passed away, I had lost her years before