Hi I haven't posted in a while, I now know without a shadow of a doubt my nan of 92 has has vascular dementia I don't know what stage but it's very clear now...I get phone calls early hours of the morning accusing me of being late to visit her....I see her every day and apart from her twice a day carer's I am her only visitor.I am now getting phone calls telling me her dogs missing I explain on the phone she only has 1 dog but she tells me it's him gone missing I drive 10 miles there to find her in her nightdress and coat with her dog besides her I ask where did she find the dog she tells me it's the other dog missing..I really am beside myself with what to do I'm sure she is awake at night as everyday she tells me she hates the darkness that was yesterday I ask her was it dark when you sore me yesterday no is the reply then she will go on and on and on c about how she hates the darkness how the dog hates the darkness..I really am at my wits end with no one to talk to..and no experience of dementia at all has anyone any experience with these things...just to know others have had these situations would be a relief many thanks x