So glad you liked it and found it helpful. I am often wary of recommending books because people’s tastes are so different. Having read most of it now, I find many of Hugh Marriott’s words and advice ringing in my ears and it helps hugely. Hang on in there!Just reading 'the selfish pigs guide to caring' it's a must for all carers.. So much confermation of everything we go through.. and ways to cope without beeting ourselves up... (wish my OH could read and understand it) it sure has made me feel more positive about the situation I'm in.. even on bad days without the guilt..