I haven't been here for a while, but could use some advice.
My mother who is in a care home now has no quality of life at all. She is in a residential home which is a lovely home, she is unable to respond to simple instructions like move an arm or even open her eyes, if you to touch her her limbs become very stiff because her brain has lost the ability to control them.
She spends almost all of her time slumped in a chair with her eyes closed, she will sometimes open them when I visit but I think any flicker of recognition has now gone. She goes through the mechanics of eating when fed usually with her eyes still closed. I used to be able to tell her to "look at me" but even that has gone now.
Despite that she doesn't appear to be in discomfort or pain, just pretty much semi-conscious.
From time to time she contracts infections, either urine or chest infections but the doctors can't say for sure. My question is would it be kinder to let one of these infections take her?
I don't know if that would cause her pain which obviously I do not want and I do not want her to go into hospital either.
Any help would be much appreciated.
My mother who is in a care home now has no quality of life at all. She is in a residential home which is a lovely home, she is unable to respond to simple instructions like move an arm or even open her eyes, if you to touch her her limbs become very stiff because her brain has lost the ability to control them.
She spends almost all of her time slumped in a chair with her eyes closed, she will sometimes open them when I visit but I think any flicker of recognition has now gone. She goes through the mechanics of eating when fed usually with her eyes still closed. I used to be able to tell her to "look at me" but even that has gone now.
Despite that she doesn't appear to be in discomfort or pain, just pretty much semi-conscious.
From time to time she contracts infections, either urine or chest infections but the doctors can't say for sure. My question is would it be kinder to let one of these infections take her?
I don't know if that would cause her pain which obviously I do not want and I do not want her to go into hospital either.
Any help would be much appreciated.