I have spent my only day off for the past 2/3 months travelling over an hour each way to visit my mum. She was in hospital recently so I visited every other day, and worked till 10pm to catch up. Today I am meeting with 2 care agencies to arrange daily visits for my mum. I run a very busy caravan park with arrivals till late evening. I have cover for my days off but still have paperwork to sort out which is behind. My own housework gets done whenever I have 5 minutes, and I have to call care agencies, meals on wheels, daycare, GP etc whenever I can, usually over lunch. I broke down in tears in a recent work meeting as I just can't go on at this pace.