Thank you @Sirena -> has it really come to this - spot on. i was thinking this earlier today, you must've heard me...
The care home is still on the agenda, but is being delayed it seems while different medications are being considered.
It will still be soon but not as soon as i thought earlier. . I feel like i'm reeling from one emotional state to another and back again. at the moment, i'm happy she's not going and seems brighter this afternoon but know tomorrow, or later on tonight, i'll be wishing she was someone safe and so on..
The care home is still on the agenda, but is being delayed it seems while different medications are being considered.
It will still be soon but not as soon as i thought earlier. . I feel like i'm reeling from one emotional state to another and back again. at the moment, i'm happy she's not going and seems brighter this afternoon but know tomorrow, or later on tonight, i'll be wishing she was someone safe and so on..
I understand how you feel, as you know many of us have been through the same process of moving a loved one to a care home. I had a feeling of 'has it really come to this' - my mother had been coping with carers at home which allowed a type of normality to continue. When she had to leave her home it was a blunt reminder of how ill she was. And it seemed like a huge mountain to climb - the entire logistics of it, as well as the emotional stresses of course.
We're all here to help whenever you need it.