Routine is everything
Hi everyone This is my second time of writing, and now only because the Alzheimer's Society sent me an standard email. I notice that most of the writers are women with husbands that have ftd. With me it's my wife who is now 64 but was diagnosed with Semantic Dementia four years ago, but I believe she has had it for 6 or 7 years.
Semantic dementia is the loss of understanding of words - both spoken and writen. She can now no longer read and has a very limited vocabulary. She understands only a little of what is said to her. However, routine and compulsion is everything. She has to go to bed at 10pm; must get up at 8am; coffee at 11am; lunch at 12noon; dinner at 5pm; cuppa at 8.20pm! She knits ferociously - all day if she can! She is also completely obsessed with the weather - no different i suppose with the rest of us!
However on the plus side she does like to go out to places although not to 'educational' places ie National Trust properties etc as she cannot understand and has no patience with the exhibits. I have just retired, the irony being that I was a journalist - a word smith! It's difficult having your wife there, but not being able to communicate with her properly - not being able to discuss things. I suppose writing all this is cathartic - what do others think
Hi everyone This is my second time of writing, and now only because the Alzheimer's Society sent me an standard email. I notice that most of the writers are women with husbands that have ftd. With me it's my wife who is now 64 but was diagnosed with Semantic Dementia four years ago, but I believe she has had it for 6 or 7 years.
Semantic dementia is the loss of understanding of words - both spoken and writen. She can now no longer read and has a very limited vocabulary. She understands only a little of what is said to her. However, routine and compulsion is everything. She has to go to bed at 10pm; must get up at 8am; coffee at 11am; lunch at 12noon; dinner at 5pm; cuppa at 8.20pm! She knits ferociously - all day if she can! She is also completely obsessed with the weather - no different i suppose with the rest of us!
However on the plus side she does like to go out to places although not to 'educational' places ie National Trust properties etc as she cannot understand and has no patience with the exhibits. I have just retired, the irony being that I was a journalist - a word smith! It's difficult having your wife there, but not being able to communicate with her properly - not being able to discuss things. I suppose writing all this is cathartic - what do others think