I care for my 85 year old mum with AD and VD mix. I also have three little boys, my eldest 13 with Down's syndrome and behavioural issues. Mum has been staying with us since before Christmas as I could no longer ensure she was eating and drinking and safe home alone. We are really struggling with mum taking off her tena pants during the day and night then having accidents on the floor or making a horrific mess in the toilet. Really not helped with having diviticula disease and a hernia. How o how do I help her to remember to put clean ones on when she feels the need to change. To be honest sometimes they are not dirty when she takes them off - so I guess they could be uncomfortable however, I cannot have all these accidents with young children about and risk having it trodden around the house. It's mainly during the night as I am about most of the time and can ask carers to monitor whilst I'm out working in the mornings. Sorry for my rambling! Any help welcome!