My husband wanted to go to the toilet today and not do it in his pants as suggested. He obviously feels the urge and begs me to take him in there. This has been happening in the home all year he is immobile but sits up in a chair. I'm told he needs a toilet swing which they haven't got I'm thinking of getting one for him myself as it takes away his dignity defacating in his pants. I think this is the easy option to just change him but it had me in tears trying to explain to him. Any ideas anyone?