Hi, been quite awhile since i have logged on. Mum is very gradually deteriorating, my problem at the moment which i hope somebody can help with is = when she needs to go to toilet she gets aggitated or say "i have a tummy ache" when taken and knickers etc taken down and sat her down, she says "what do i do now". If i say "spend a penny", she looks in her pockets for money, have a wee, "what is that i dont understand". I usually end up walking away, frustrated, for awhile hoping nature will take its course. Can anyone help?