I know that almost everyone on this forum is in the same boat so I feel a bit silly posting that I am so tired that I am almost over this caring business. I have cleaned up the toilet four times today, rescued my OH from falling over several times and responded to countless calls of "where are you" when I am in plain sight or at the toilet or hanging out the washing. I cannot move out of his sight. After 7 years or a steadily declining situation I am feeling quite down tonight. Glad to have this forum to give vent to my feelings as I know that many of you truly understand what it is like.