I visit my MIL every day . I'm almost obsessive, It's like I can't settle unless I visit. And yet today I hated every minute. She didn't offer me a cuppa, she was very suspicious, and I came away wondering why I bother. She may have picked up my weariness, I think I'm pm and I had hoped she would show some sign of gratefulness that I had visited with shopping and made her a cup of tea and suggested what she had for her tea. Its an incredibly thankless task at times. I've seen her every day this week, even the day I had driven 200 miles home. Tomorrow I will give myself a day off. She quite possibly would starve if it wasn't for me and sometimes I think no-one else cares !