Hello,
Well now I'm much calmer I'm back on my questions - not again they cry!!
We had an incident on Saturday and to be frank I was completely stuck on how to deal with it.
As you may remember dad had taken mum away to their caravan in the Lake District - it wasn't going too badly until Friday when she went into melt down (for want of another word) and threw everything all over the caravan.
Dad brought her home on Saturday because he'd had enough and asked me to go round to see if I could deal with her. She was in buckets of tears and I ended up cradling her on the couch like a baby which was very upseting. The house looked like a bomb had hit it as things had been thrown there as well.
It seemed that the problem was she thought it was the day of a church members party and she was mad because dad wouldn't let her go (the party is only next week).
No matter what we did or said we could not make her understand this and so things started getting thrown again - she took her shoes off and threw them at me which was interesting (I've never had things thrown at me before!:) and it went on for the rest of the day and evening - poor dad I'd had to leave by then.
I realise this is pretty much the norm but does anyone have any tips on how to deal with this - how do you convince an able bodied woman that she can't go somewhere when she's adament she wants to go?
Dad was all for letting her go but I don't think it's fair to put someone else in that position.
What does anyone else do?
Kate P
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Well now I'm much calmer I'm back on my questions - not again they cry!!
We had an incident on Saturday and to be frank I was completely stuck on how to deal with it.
As you may remember dad had taken mum away to their caravan in the Lake District - it wasn't going too badly until Friday when she went into melt down (for want of another word) and threw everything all over the caravan.
Dad brought her home on Saturday because he'd had enough and asked me to go round to see if I could deal with her. She was in buckets of tears and I ended up cradling her on the couch like a baby which was very upseting. The house looked like a bomb had hit it as things had been thrown there as well.
It seemed that the problem was she thought it was the day of a church members party and she was mad because dad wouldn't let her go (the party is only next week).
No matter what we did or said we could not make her understand this and so things started getting thrown again - she took her shoes off and threw them at me which was interesting (I've never had things thrown at me before!:) and it went on for the rest of the day and evening - poor dad I'd had to leave by then.
I realise this is pretty much the norm but does anyone have any tips on how to deal with this - how do you convince an able bodied woman that she can't go somewhere when she's adament she wants to go?
Dad was all for letting her go but I don't think it's fair to put someone else in that position.
What does anyone else do?
Kate P
XXX